Escorting
1. Against the law unless you’re in Nevada
2. Clients are not tested
3. Not safe – you can be beaten, raped or killed
4. You don’t get a choice on who you have sex with
5. You don’t get fame by doing it
6. If everyone can have you what’s so special about you?

Porn
1. Not against the law
2. Talent is tested
3. You’re safe – no one is going to beat you, rape you or kill you
4. Most women get their choice of guy to do the scene with. If they don’t get a choice on who to work with, the men are still decent looking and fit
5. Porn performers become friends (you’re not sleeping with anyone)
6. You perform to entertain fans and sometimes even teach them new things
7. You become famous and get the chance to build an empire
8. When you retire you can still generate money off of websites or hosting parties
9. You can build a feature dancing career

The reason I am putting my two cents in is because a lot of girls are putting themselves and this industry at risk. Girls are now giving the girlfriend experience or porn star experience with the guys that are hiring them to escort. Why are these girls taking such risks where they can be hurt or catch a disease and give it to the performers in this business? I understand the money is good but I believe it’s better to have less money and be safe than to get money for escorting and catch HIV.

The other concern I have is girls having drug problems. I have been in this business for a long I have never done any drugs to get through a scene. Please, I just don’t do drugs. Don’t get me wrong – we all have smoked marijuana at some point in our lives, but come on. I am talking about crystal meth, coke and oxycontin. I spoke to a few girls that do drugs. They say they don’t do drugs to do a scene; they only do drugs to take the edge off when escorting. To me it seems that they must know that morally something is wrong when escorting and that’s why they need a fix to do it.

I had this beautiful girl that I use to represent and she did a lot of drugs. She told me the reason she started was because she was escorting and that was the only way she could deal with it. My friend and I told her we would pay for her rehab if she went. I also told her I would not book her any jobs shooting porn and she would have to quit escorting in order for us to do this. Anyway, she agreed! Well, she just called me up after six months of rehab and has decided to quit the business and stop escorting. She is now getting married and has a decent job. I just hope the girls in our business open their eyes and wake up. Nothing is worth you losing yourself, happiness or your health.

Let’s get realistic: If you want to be married with children one day a man can get past “Well, my wife used to be a porn star.” But, what real man can get past, “My wife used to be a hooker”?

This is just my opinion!!!

Shy Love