Dear Jesse Jane – 02.17.10
Jesse Jane – Porn SUPERSTAR and Rock Confidential’s very own Sex Editor – answers your sex and relationship questions! She wants to hear from you! Who knows? Maybe she’ll answer your question in her next column!
Dear Jesse Jane,
I’ve been with my girlfriend for a year but she won’t let me go down on her. How can I persuade her to let me and make it great?
Well, for one I can’t believe she won’t let you go down on her! That’s weird. Tell her it turns you on and promise her she won’t regret it and you will make her orgasm several times. Some girls might be uncomfortable with it if they think they smell down there, or if they think you wont like their pussy.
Dear Jesse Jane,
When I’m getting it on with my girl, I just think of you doing all those things to me rather than her. What am I supposed to do?
WOOHOO! Still think of me!! Believe it or not, girls and guys often think of someone else fucking them to get them turned on. It’s more common than you think. You just think about a fantasy in your head and you’re horny, ready to fuck whoever is in front of you!
Dear Jesse Jane,
I was dumped a month ago, but I’m still crazy about her. Is there any way I can get her into a sexual relationship with me?
Sometimes if you have had a relationship with someone and that person isnt dating yet, they will have sex with you. Some girls don’t want their sexual partner number to add up, but they still want sex. It still might be too soon, but convince her to hang out, go to a movie or something. And then one thing may lead to another.
Dear Jesse Jane,
I’ve recently got a new girlfriend, but she doesn’t want to sleep with me because she says my cock’s too big. Now what?
Good problem to have for you. What’s your name again? lol Tell her you will be gentle. You do need to be. You have to work your way into her slowly and open her up a bit. If a girl hasn’t had a big cock, her pussy doesn’t just open right up. Make her trust you that you will be easy on her, and will work your cock into her. Once you do she will be addicted. Trust me…
Dear Jesse Jane,
I have a foot fetish but I’m really nervous telling girls I like it in case they think I’m a freak. How do I tell them?
You should have a casual conversation about sex. Ask her what she likes, and see if she has any fetishes. Then bring up what you like sexually, and mention your foot fetish. It’s not a weird fetish – everyone has something that turns them on. Yours is feet!
Dear Jesse Jane,
I’m single so I have to make do with jerking off. But it’s getting boring, so what can I do to change it up?
Try dating for one. Just because your single doesn’t mean you can’t have sex. You can change videos, use lube sometimes instead of lotion, or make it like a game and keep seeing how fast you can get yourself off and try to beat your record.
Dear Jesse Jane,
My girlfriend told me she wants to do me with a strap on. She says she wants to return the favor so I can see how good it feels. I don’t want to tell her no, but I’m not sure I’m ready to take it up the ass! Advice?! PLEASE!
Well, you do it to her! LOL More guys like anal play – they just won’t admit it. It’s something you would have to ease yourself into. Fingers first. You will orgasm harder but you have to be up to taking it in the ass!
Dear Jesse Jane,
When I first met my girlfriend she gave me head all the time. Now she only does it before we have sex. How can I get her on her knees more often?
Get on yours too!! Do you only go down on her right before sex? If you want head, return the favor!
Dear Jesse Jane,
My boyfriend takes it personally when I won’t swallow his cum. I just don’t like the taste. And recommendations on how to get it down without gagging all over him?
Stop thinking about it. You pysch yourself out because you don’t like it, so you gag even more because you told yourself mentally you would. Some girls just don’t like it. Maybe if he drinks pineapple juice it will be sweeter for you and not so salty and warm. And breathe in if his cock is in your mouth – then it goes down your throat and you really don’t taste it.
Dear Jesse Jane,
Sometimes I’d rather watch one of your movies than have sex with my girl. Is that wrong?
No that rocks!! Sometimes guys and girls just need to masturbate. You got to have “you” time. I still have lots of sex, but sometimes I just want to watch a video with my vibrator.
