My boyfriend wants me to have a boob job. I’m scared to have surgery and I think I look fine the way I am. What should I do?
If you are happy with yourself then don’t get one. You need to please yourself – not your man.

I’m 32 and single. I’m writing because I recently told a friend how many men I’ve slept with and she called me a slut. Do you think that 32 men is too many for someone my age? I mean, it’s only 2 guys a year since I lost my virginity at sixteen.
Hell no! She’s just a prude. Don’t listen to her – she’s probably jealous she hasn’t experienced what you have sexually. And as long as you’re safe, who cares how many people you sleep with?

Do you see yourself as a celebrity? Do you ever take a look back and see all the magazine covers, photos, movies, media coverage and get freaked out? What’s a normal day like at your house?
I don’t think I’m a celebrity. When I look at all my magazine covers I get overwhelmed, but I don’t freak out. I love it! A normal day at my house is working out, cooking, having sex, then hanging with my friends.

I am currently not dating anyone but I still get horny. My friend is in the same boat. We are thinking about sleeping with each other just to get each other off. Do you think this is a good idea?
I think it is but only if you can separate friendship and not get attached. Honestly though, for most people it ruins the friendship because you develop feelings for each other and become more than just friends. So it’s your call. I think it’s ok if y’all can handle it!

There is this girl that I like but she only uses me for a booty call. How can I make her see me as boyfriend material?
You are complaining about that? WOW! That’s a first! If you really want to be her boyfriend talk to her. Maybe she has no idea you have those kind of feelings for her.

My boyfriend and I LOVE to use food in our lovemaking. The problem is that I’m getting a little chunky. Do you have any advice?
Yeah – workout. Or use strawberries or something healthy if you are going to use food. You need to workout baby. Have harder sex – help burn off those calories! Remember, an orgasm is the best calorie burner!

My friend and his wife invited me to a swingers club. I’m interested and need suggestions on how to get my wife to go.
Well ask her if she’s interested in swinging. She needs to want to explore sexually. That’s the only way. Tell her you feel you will grow closer with each other if you broaden your sexual adventures. Tell her it will spice up your relationship.

My boyfriend asked if he could videotape us having sex so he could have it when we’re apart. I didn’t have any reservations until I told my best friend and she freaked out. Now I’m confused. Should I let him tape us?
Yes, if you are comfortable with it. Your friend freaked out probably because your boyfriend might show his friends. It’s what guys do even if they say they won’t. It ups their manhood. It is totally fun, Just know there could be a possibility his friends might see it.

Why is it that when my wife wants to go out with her girlfriends I support her and say great. But when I want to go out with the guys she gives me a hard time?
She’s jealous. She feels like you want to go hit on girls, or they will hit on you. That’s because guys probably hit on her and she probably flirts back. Harmless, but yet she doesnt want you to do the same. It’s a guilty conscious.

What music have you been listening to lately? I think you should do more music videos!!!
I want to do more music videos so bad! I love them – they are so much fun! I listen to rock. I love Hinder’s new cd and Nickelbacks as well.