When will you be putting out some new movies?
Ken in Solana Beach
I have a new one coming out in February – called LOADED. Then in March I will begin filming again.

I have been living with a woman for almost 5 years. Our sex life is in the toilet. Most of the time when I try to initiate sex, she rejects me at first. Then, it seems she realizes she feels bad and says ok. At that point, I am really not interested, because her initial rejection was so cold. She rarely goes down on me (I keep the area neatly groomed) and rarely lets me go down on her. She says she feels self conscious about herself scent wise. I tell her if that was an issue, I wouldn’t offer. I have bought her sex toys, she has little interest in them. Strange for a woman, she has little interest in foreplay. She pretty much just spreads and says let’s do it. I’m always on top. I have tried talking about it, it always leads to a fight. I have asked her what I can do to help, what would make her happy, etc. She just doesn’t seem to care at all about sex. I have also tried acting like sex doesn’t exist to see if maybe she would initiate. No luck there either. I really don’t want to leave her because we have a great relationship in every other way. I don’t want to go elsewhere for sex either. Do you think there is anything else I can try to jump start things? Or do you think maybe she is getting some action elsewhere? I’m almost ready to leave, although I don’t want to, but I really want to be able to say I gave it my best shot.
Hmmm.. Well, why don’t you suggest to her getting a pill to enhance her sexuality. Some girls at a certain age lose the intensity of their youthful sexuality. If she refuses, tell her if your sex life, which is very important, doesn’t improve, you will have to look around at your options. Sweetie, she would be getting some somewhere else if nothing worked.

Hello there, I’ve come to a decision about this…. I’ve got at few questions prolly most ppl ask you bout. First, how come you entered this kind of acting in the first place? What does yer friends and family says? Do they dislike you? There´s rumours going on….. bout drugs I mean…is it a lot of them there? I found you really hot, no question bout it, Haven´t seen any of your movies though.. Don´t count them as anykind of amusing, all movies included. Thanks for your respond.
Elias, Sweden.
I contacted Digital Playground and sent them pictures and they signed me immediately. My friends and family are supportive because they know who I am and if you see my movies, you’ll see that there are very high production values and I actually act. There is a story and everything, it isn’t just sex and it isn’t demeaning or degrading. I choose everything about my scenes. The people close to me love me and my work. There are drugs in every business, not just entertainment. It’s good to educate yourself before you pass judgment though. I encourage you to check out one of my movies, any one you like.

Are you or any of the other girls on Rock Confidential sleeping with the editor, Jesse Capps? How do you know him?
Well sweetie, not yet! But you never know. Jesse is hot. I met him through friends and originally through Rock Confidential. He’s a great guy!

I’m a huge fan of the web site and I’m curious as to what i’m doing wrong when it comes to girls. First off i’m a junior in high school. which puts me at 16 years of age. i’m a decent looking guy, no model material or anything, but i wouldn’t make babies cry. i’m pretty down to earth, i like to go out and have a good time like a lot of people, but i’m also comfortable just hanging out and putting on some music and just chilling, i play in a band and i love going to concerts, i’m a huge music fan and an avid collector of original presses of vinyl records. i listen to everything from the beatles to slipknot, robert johnson to the misfits. i think all of that is some pretty cool shit to be into. I’m kind of shy at first, but i’m quick to warm up to people. most of the girls at my school are stuck up and won’t give you the time of day. which is total bullshit i think. a majority of the guys at my school are into rap and wear either fubu or abercrombie, and there is no way i’d ever wear that crap. and the girls seem to be into this. i’m wondering why they would be into stupid shit like that? i also want to know if it is something that i’m doing wrong? or is it just the girls? i read these interviews with girls on rock confidential and other music websites and they are perfect, they know their shit when it comes to good music, they aren’t stuck up, and just seem to be all around great girls. any advise on what i can or should do would be cool. thanks. cory
Baby, it seems like you are a good guy. Why would you want to be with stuck up girls anyways? I couldn’t handle all the bitchin’. If you’re not into Abercrombie and shit, who cares? Don’t change you! Rock on and don’t be shy. Be confident, it’s sexy!

I am a 32 year old man in the prime of my life and I consider sex a very important part of life. I love my girlfriend more than anything in the world (we have a one year old son together). I want to have sex every day of my life (and I did before I met her, however, I didn’t care about any of the women the way I care about her). My girlfriend is content to go through life never having sex again and I cannot go through life that way The only time that we even have sex is when I start it, I want to have a woman that loves to have fun and will start once in a while. I tell her all the time how hot I think that she is and it doesn’t do any good. I only want to have sex with her right now in my life, however, if this continues, I will need to have my needs met. I have already been through a divorce and I don’t want another relationship to fail, but, I feel that sex is a very vital part of life. I know that I am rambling on, but, what should I do? There are a number of women in my home town that would love to have sex with me, but I want to be with someone that wants a life. How do I get through to my girlfriend that this means a lot to me? I bring it up all the time and I don’t know where to go from here. I want a woman that wants me in return!
Try going to counseling or buy her some sexy lingerie. I don’t understand these people who don’t want to have sex. It’s very important. Who doesn’t want to have an orgasm? Talk to her, explain how important it is to you. Tell her if she loves you and cares about the relationship, she will meet you in the middle and work towards a solution.

First of all I want to thank your for your great movies. My girlfriend and I love “Erotique” and “Three Timing”! My girlfriend is very attractive and has decided to try out as a porn-actress. I’m not against it, it actually makes me quite hot thinking about her with other girls and guys, but I’m afraid that she will like this “swinging” lifestyle so much, that I will lose her eventually, if she decides to really go through with her plans. What are your experiences on this subject?
Cheers, Rod, Germany
Thank you very much Rod. Well it’s great that you support your girls decision. It’s fun and exciting. Honey, you won’t lose her if she loves you. She’ll separate the professional life from her personal life. Maybe she’ll bring a girl home for you to share. You never know! Give her the support and trust and it won’t be like you think!

Hello Jesse I just wanted to let you know that you are so beautiful. Your movies are absolutely great. I first saw you in Family Buisness on Showtime. I was just wondering if maybe you could give me some advice on making a woman cum orally, and analy? Your advice would be well appreciated. Damn you are absolutely sexy.
Thanks, Marty
Thank you Marty! For oral pleasure, start kissing her inner thighs, then blow on her pussy to stimulate her. Give her a few little wet kisses down there and then slowly start licking her clitoris. Breathe hot air as you do this and she’ll be tingling. You can always insert a finger or two while you suck on her clit but most importantly tell her she tastes delicious and to relax. Then respond to her as she squirms around. Find her groove. As for anal advice, I have none. That’s an exit only for me. Sorry!

Dear Jesse,
I am 18 years old and seem to have no luck with the ladies. I’m not bad looking and im not affraid to talk to girls. I just don’t get it. Do you have any tips? Thanks.
Sincerely, Jack
Well, how do you talk to them? Please don’t tell me you use corny pick up lines because that won’t work. Try going up to a girl and introducing yourself, spark up a conversation, ask her questions about herself, smile and make eye contact. Be yourself. It should work. It would work on me!

So my question is how do you get a girl to sleep with you with out being to blunt about it, cuz most of my ex’s rushed me and i never had to put any push of game toward hitting that pussy, so what can u say would be a good idea?
Well, first of all you need to know if there is chemistry, if she’s attracted to you. If so, just start kissing and stuff and see where it leads. Charm her. If you ask her, it’s a guaranteed turn off. I say make the moves and listen to her. If she says no, don’t push it. If she’s into you, she’ll come around.

Jesse, My wife and I are 35 and 32 years old. We’ve got a 14 month old son and we’ve been together for 4 1/2 years. The fire has gone out of our romantic life since the baby was born and I can’t seem to relight it no matter how hard I try. She had a C-section and thinks she’s not attractive anymore. I think she’s the hottest lady around. I only want to be with her and she feels the same about me, but I’m VERY frustrated! HELP, Brian
Try surprising her with a candle-lit dinner, and a rose petal bath. Romance her. Remind her how attracted you are to her and tell her you can’t control yourself when you’re around her, then just grab her and kiss her. Be in the moment. That should help re-light the fire again.